*Taking control in people's life is not something to be proud of*

Why must you want to control an individual??
I don't see any points of controlling a person, no matter parent control kids, bf control gf, or gf control bf. Especially in a relationship. Controlling is absolutely forbidden, in my personal Chialing's Theory.

Will you feel very happy if you managed to control a person's life?
The person that being controlled will feel tense and under inspection all the time. Just like you are setting a hidden camera on the person. Which is practically "ILLEGAL".

Trust is more, much much more inportant in relationship. Controlling will always leave a negative impact.
Individual needs caring, but not inspecting.
Individual needs trust, but not pressure.
Individual needs life, but not YOUR life.
Individual needs freedom, but not controlling.
Once a person felt freedom of life, he/she will be willing to be controlled.
Trust me.